โ† Skills
Skill 7 ยท Be Wise

Internet Safety

The internet is huge and full of brilliant things โ€” and a few not-so-brilliant things. Here's how to use it safely.
Scene 1 ยท The big rule

The internet is forever

Anything you type, post, or send online โ€” even if you delete it later โ€” could still be out there. Photos, words, videos. Think before you press send.

Mum and Dad's rule: before sending anything online, would you say it to that person's face? Would you be OK if grandma saw it tomorrow? If yes โ€” go ahead. If no โ€” don't send it.

Scene 2 ยท Strangers online

People online aren't always who they say they are

In a game, in a chat, in comments โ€” anyone could be on the other side. A "12-year-old girl" could be a 40-year-old man. You can't tell.

Never send to strangers:

  • Your real name, age, or birthday
  • Your school's name, your address, your area
  • A photo of you, your house, or your uniform
  • Mum or Dad's phone number
  • When the family is going to be away
  • Always:

  • Use a username that isn't your real name
  • Tell Mum or Dad if anyone online makes you feel weird
  • Believe your tummy if a message feels off โ€” even if you can't say why
  • Scene 3 ยท Things you didn't ask for

    Strange websites, scary pictures, mean comments

    Sometimes you'll be looking at something normal and a weird link, picture, or pop-up shows up. Close it. Tell a grown-up. You're not in trouble โ€” you didn't do anything wrong.

    Some games have chat. Some chats have mean people. If someone says nasty things or asks for things that feel wrong: stop replying, screenshot, tell mum or dad.

    Scene 4 ยท Passwords

    Yours to keep

    Scene 5 ยท Screens have a bedtime too

    Step away

    Screens make your brain run faster, which makes it harder to fall asleep. We turn off devices at least 30 minutes before bed. The brain needs that time to settle.

    Take breaks. Go outside. The internet will still be there in an hour.

    โ˜… The big idea

    You and your phone, both grown-ups in the room

    The internet is a tool. The same way you don't use a knife alone in the kitchen yet, you don't use the internet without grown-up rules.

    If something feels wrong โ€” stop, screenshot, tell a grown-up. You won't be in trouble. We'll figure it out together.