โ Skills
Skill 5 ยท Be Calm
When I'm Home Alone
For when you're a bit older. The doorbell, the phone, the kitchen โ what to do, and what NOT to do.
Before the grown-ups leave
Three things to know first
- Where they're going, when they'll be back, and how to call them.
- Who else you can call โ a neighbour, a relative, a parent's friend.
- Vietnam emergency numbers: 113 police ยท 114 fire ยท 115 ambulance. Or 112 from any phone.
Scene 1 ยท Doors
Locked. Stays locked.
The first thing to do when you're home alone: check that all doors are locked. Front door, back door, balcony door. Don't unlock them for anyone you don't expect.
If you go outside (to take rubbish out, get something from the corridor) โ take the keys with you and lock the door behind you.
Scene 2 ยท The doorbell
The default answer is "no, thank you"
๐ The doorbell rings. What do you do?
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Look through the peephole. Don't open the door first.
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If you must answer, speak through the door. "My parents are busy โ please come back later."
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Never say "I'm home alone." Pretend a grown-up is in the next room.
Even if it's a delivery person, even if they say it's urgent โ your answer is "please come back later." Real emergencies will call mum or dad's phone, not bang on the door.
Scene 3 ยท The phone
Same rule
- If it's a number you know โ answer.
- If it's a stranger โ let it go to voicemail, or hang up.
- Never say "I'm home alone" to anyone on the phone.
- Never give out our address, our schedule, or who's home.
Scene 4 ยท The kitchen
Cold things only โ until you're older
When you're home alone, eat cold food. Sandwich, fruit, yoghurt, leftover phแป (cold is fine!), cereal. Don't use the stove, the oven, or the rice cooker unless a grown-up has said it's OK and you've practised together.
The microwave is usually OK โ but only for things in microwave-safe containers. Never anything metal.
Scene 5 ยท If something goes wrong
Three calls, in order
- Mum or Dad โ call them first.
- If you can't reach them, call your backup adult (grandma, neighbour, godparent โ agree on this beforehand).
- For real emergency (fire, smoke, big bleeding, someone broke in, can't breathe) โ call 113 / 114 / 115 immediately. Tell them your address and what's wrong. Stay on the line.
You're never in trouble for calling for help
Calling 113-115 is free โ even from a locked phone
Stay on the line; the operator stays with you until help arrives
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The big idea
You can do this โ calmly
Being home alone is a sign your family trusts you. The trick is simple: doors locked, no openings, no truths to strangers, cold food, three calls if needed.
And remember โ boring is the goal. The best home-alone time is one where nothing happens at all.